As John got into his car, Rob yelled, You be the man! Funny, thought John, this morning my wife asked me what kind of man I was. Before, he wouldnt have thought anything of it, but now it bothered him. He knew he wasnt the man he wanted to be, but it frustrated him to try to become something he couldnt even define.\\ Read how John figured out who he wanted to be and the strange, but effective, way to get there. The teacher is unique, and the lessons are difficult, but the reward is priceless.