The Eldest Daughter Effect How Firstborn Women--Like Oprah Winfrey, Sheryl Sandberg, JK Rowling and Beyonce--Harness Their Strengths

Always feeling responsible for everyone? Chances are you’re an eldest daughter. Here’s why.



"What do Angela Merkel, Hillary Rodham Clinton, Christine Lagarde, Oprah Winfrey, Sheryl Sandberg, JK Rowling and Beyoncé have in common?" was the headline in the English newspaper The Observer in 2014. "Other than riding high in Forbes list of the world's most powerful women," journalist Tracy McVeigh wrote in answer to her own question, "they are also all firstborn children in their families. Firstborn children really do excel." So what does it mean to be an eldest daughter? Firstborns Lisette Schuitemaker and Wies Enthoven set out to discover the big five qualities that characterise all eldest daughters to some degree. Eldest daughters are responsible, dutiful, thoughtful, expeditious and caring. Firstborns are more intelligent than their siblings, more proficient verbally and more motivated to perform. Yet at the same time they seriously doubt that they are good enough. Being an eldest daughter can have certain advantages, but the overbearing sense of responsibility often gets in the way. Parents may worry about their 'difficult' eldest girl who wants to be perfect in everything she does whilst her siblings may not always understand her. THE ELDEST DAUGHTER EFFECT shows how firstborn girls become who they are and offers insights that can give them more freedom to move. Parents with a firstborn daughter will gather invaluable tips on how to raise their eldest daughter and her siblings. · Eldest daughters will gain insight into unconscious patterns that have formed them from an early age. · The wonderful discovery that they are not alone in how they perceive life will give eldest daughters more freedom inwardly and outwardly. · New conversations will spring up between mothers and fathers and eldest daughters, eldest sisters and siblings, partners. · No one before dared to write so freely about this obviously familiar but complicated subject · It is different from other books because the writers use their own experiences as eldest daughters, the power of recognition; the book, also, features lots of other eldest daughters including very famous ones · It contains a lot of information and yet is an easy and entertaining read