She Comes First, by Ian Kerner, is a witty, well-researched and revealing guide to bringing a woman to orgasm every time through cunnilingus. Oral sex has long been regarded as foreplay, a mere prelude to intercourse; now, Ian Kerner ushers in a new sexual era where it can be the focus of sexual coreplay . She Comes First is divided into bite-sized sections covering the philosophy and the techniques behind successful cunnilingus. It also includes step-by-step instructions and detailed anatomical information, essential to both beginners and experienced lovers (did you know that the clitoris has 8000 nerve endings, twice as many as the penis?). It's time to close the sex gap and create a level playing field in the exchange of pleasure, and cunnilingus is far more than just a means for achieving this noble end; it's the cornerstone of a new sexual paradigm, one that exuberantly extols a shared experience of pleasure, intimacy, respect and contentment. It's also one of the greatest gifts of love a man can bestow upon a woman. Ian Kerner Men have always misunderstood how to elicit the female orgasm but have rarely been willing to ask. She Comes First solves the mystery of female satisfaction by taking the reader through dozens of techniques to satisfy their partner with step-by-step instructions to ensure success. While oral sex for some is considered an optional aspect of foreplay, Ian Kerner argues that it is central and details the best, tried and tested, way for bringing a woman through the entire process of sexual response. Fun, informative and accessible, Ian Kerner instructs those left behind on modern sexual relationships, giving much-needed advice to those too scared to ask what they feel they should already know. She Comes First is a sex manual dedicated entirely to women's pleasure for both men and women.